Personals and relationships advice
How to Find Love in the Philippines
I bet you do.
I hope, however, that you don’t want a girlfriend who is just beautiful. There are thousands of incredibly beautiful women in this world, but that doesn’t mean that all those women have the potential to enrich your life.
The sad truth is that there are many women who are not good for you. There are many women who are not particularly girlfriend material. If you are a man who is looking for a loving girlfriend who supports you no matter what, you probably have a hard time finding such a woman.
In case you were born and raised in a Western country it is even harder for you to find a girl who is not only beautiful on the outside, but also beautiful on the inside. It is no secret that many Western girls are more concerned about their next promotion than about their current relationship.
It is also no secret that men like you and me want to date women who are supportive, loyal and who value and respect us. Finding those girls in the West is quite hard. Finding them in the Philippines is much easier.
There are plenty of loving and supportive women in the Philippines who would love to meet a loving and supportive guy like you. Nevertheless, there are also some bad apples in the basket. That’s why it is so incredibly important to have the ability to distinguish between the girls who are wife potential and the girls you should better not date.
You might think that this is easier said than done. Well, it is actually quite easy, at least when you know what you are looking for…
Know What You Are Looking For
What kind of girl are you looking for?
In case it’s your goal to have a fulfilling relationship you should stay away from the bars with red signs and half-naked girls. I mean, come on. Are you really naïve enough to believe that a woman who works as a prostitute for more than a decade doesn’t want your money?
I know that there are many, many men who fall for those girls and who end up as walking ATM’s who pay for a lot of things they shouldn’t pay for, but you don’t have to be one of them. You are intelligent enough to know that gogo bars are not the right place to find the love of your life.
But what is the right place to find the love of your life in the Philippines? Well, how about this website? Online dating is a great way to get in contact with women from the Philippines before you even arrive there. Yes, you can actually use an online dating site to set up dates before you land.
However, just because online dating is a great way to date loving and caring women in the Philippines, doesn’t mean that you should stay at home until the end of days.
Be Willing to Travel to the Philippines
I know, I know…it’s scary to leave your comfort zone. It’s scary to travel to another continent and to a country you have never been to. It is scary to leave the safe and secure borders of your home country and to explore new grounds.
You just have to be aware that this fear is nothing but an illusion. You have been conditioned to believe that a country like the Philippines is dangerous. It’s not, unless you are driving.
It’s an adventure and if you go there to meet the women that you already connected with through online dating, you will have the time of your life. Online dating allows you to set up dates before you land, but your willingness to travel to the Philippines is what allows you to meet those women face to face. This allows you to truly connect with them.
Now all you have to do is to find out if she is the right girl for you…
Find Out if She is Ready for Love
Now that you have landed in the Philippines it is your job to find out if the women you are setting up dates with are worth your time. Find out if she is ready for love. Test her.
All you need are two ingredients:
Honest and authenticity.
Be honest about your intentions to find a girlfriend and be authentic in the way you talk and in the way you present yourself. Don’t pretend to be a player when you are looking for a serious monogamous relationship and don’t pretend to be a romantic lover when all you want is a one night stand.
Be who you are and reveal what you want. This honesty and authenticity will allow her to also be honest with you. This allows you to find out whether or not she is also looking for love.
Don’t Settle With the First Girl
What if you have found a beautiful woman who is also looking for love?
Well, then you think back to what I said at the beginning of this article. You don’t just settle down with the first beautiful woman who is interested in a relationship. Being interested in a relationship and being relationship material are not the same.
The only woman you should even think about settling down with is a woman who is girlfriend material.
What exactly does that mean?
She has to be supportive. She has to have strong family values. She has to treat you and other people with respect.
These are the most important qualities you are looking for and if she doesn’t have them, you should allow yourself to move on to the next woman.
What if she has those qualities?
Focus Your Energy on the Girl Who Deserves You
Once you have found a Filipina who is not only beautiful, but also caring, supportive and respectful, you can focus all your energy on her.
If you are serious about finding a girlfriend in the Philippines, this should be the moment when you stop dating other women. Focus your energy on her and find out if she is the right girl for you.
In case she is the right girl, you will one day write me an email in which you thank me for writing about the beautiful women in the Philippines.